Hadiths Of The Criteria for Choosing a Spouse

رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مَنْ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً لَا يَتَزَوَّجُهَا إِلَّا لِجَمَالِهَا لَمْ يَرَ فِيهَا مَا يُحِبُّ وَ مَنْ تَزَوَّجَهَا لِمَالِهَا لَا يَتَزَوَّجُهَا إِلَّا وَكَلَهُ اللَّهُ إِلَيْهِ فَعَلَيْكُمْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

He who marries a woman solely for her beauty will not find in her what he likes, he who marries her for her wealth Allah relegates him to that wealth, so look to marry women of faith.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol100 P235

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ يُحِبُّ الْبَيْتَ الَّذِي فِيهِ الْعُرْسُ وَ يُبْغِضُ الْبَيْتَ الَّذِي فِيهِ الطَّلَاقُ وَ مَا مِنْ شَيْ‏ءٍ أَبْغَضَ إِلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ مِنَ الطَّلَاقِ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Verily Allah, Mighty and Exalted, loves the house wherein a wedding is taking place, and despises the house wherein a divorce is in process, and nothing is more abominable to Allah than divorce.

Source: al-Mir'āt al-'Uqūl fī Sharḥ Akhbār ar-Rasūl Vol21 P94

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَ أَمَانَتَهُ يَخْطُبُ إِلَيْكُمْ فَزَوِّجُوهُ إِلَّا تَفْعَلُوهُ تَكُنْ فِتْنَةٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَ فَسادٌ كَبِيرٌ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

When someone comes to you with a proposal of marriage and you are well-pleased with his faith and his integrity then accept him in marriage, for if you do not, discord and corruption will prevail in the land.

Source: Alamali Volcheykhe Toussi P

ID: 30001

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الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

أَنْعَمُ النَّاسِ عَيْشاً مَنْ مَنَحَهُ اللَّهُ الْقَنَاعَةَ وَ أَصْلَحَ لَهُ زَوْجَهُ .

Imam Ali (as):

The man with the most comfortable lifestyle is he whom Allah, Glory be to Him, has granted contentment and to whom he has given a virtuous wife.

Source: Ghurar al-Ḥikam Vol1 P212

ID: 30000

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

يُفَتَّحُ أَبْوَابُ السَّمَاءِ بِالرَّحْمَةِ فِي أَرْبَعِ مَوَاضِعَ عِنْدَ نُزُولِ الْمَطَرِ وَ عِنْدَ نَظَرِ الْوَلَدِ فِي وَجْهِ الْوَالِدَيْنِ وَ عِنْدَ فَتْحِ بَابِ الْكَعْبَةِ وَ عِنْدَ النِّكَاح‏ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

The gates of heaven are opened with mercy in four occasions: at the time of the rainfall, when a son looks at the faces of his parents [with the look of kindness on his face], when the door of the Ka'ba gets opened, and at the time of someone’s marriage.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol100 P221

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مَا مِنْ شَابٍّ تَزَوَّجَ فِي حَدَاثَةِ سِنِّهِ إِلَّا عَجَّ شَيْطَانُهُ يَا وَيْلَهُ يَا وَيْلَهُ عَصَمَ مِنِّي ثُلُثَيْ دِينِهِ فَلْيَتَّقِ اللَّهَ الْعَبْدُ فِي الثُّلُثِ الْبَاقِي .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

When a young person gets married at the prime of his youth, his inner Satan cries out in rage, ‘Woe unto him! Woe unto him! he has now secured two-thirds of his religion against me.’ So he has only to be wary of his duty to Allah in the remaining one-third.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol100 P221

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الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

تَزَوَّجُوا فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ص قَالَ مَنْ أَحَبَّ أَنْ يَتَّبِعَ سُنَّتِي فَإِنَّ مِنْ سُنَّتِيَ التَّزْوِيجَ.

Imam Ali (as):

You must get married, for verily the prophet said, ‘Whoever would like to follow my practice should know that marriage is a part of my practice.’

Source: Wasā’il al-Shī’a Vol20 P18

ID: 29997

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مَا بُنِيَ فِي الْإِسْلَامِ بِنَاءٌ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ وَ أَعَزُّ مِنَ التَّزْوِيجِ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

There is no institution in Islam more beloved to Allah and dearer to Him than marriage.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol100 P222

ID: 29996

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

إنَّ اللّهَ عَزَّ و جلَّ يُحِبُّ البيتَ الذي فيهِ العُرسُ، و يُبغِضُ البيتَ الذي فيهِ الطلاقُ، و ما مِن شَيءٍ أبغَضَ إلى اللّهِ عَزَّ و جلَّ مِن الطلاقِ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Verily Allah, Mighty and Exalted, loves the house wherein a wedding is taking place, and despises the house wherein a divorce is in process, and nothing is more abominable to Allah than divorce.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol6 P54

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

ما مِن شَيءٍ مِمّا أحَلَّهُ اللّهُ عَزَّ و جلَّ أبغَضَ إلَيهِ مِن الطلاقِ، و إنَّ اللّهَ يُبغِضُ المِطلاقَ الذَّوّاقَ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Nothing is more abominable to Allah from all that He has made permissible than divorce, and verily Allah despises one who is quick to contract new divorces and marriages.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol6 P54

ID: 27288

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