Hadiths Of Tolerating Bad Character of a Spouse

Source: Makārim al-Akhlāq No214

ID: 1313

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مَن صَبَرَ عَلى سُوءِ خُلُقِ امرَأتِهِ واحتَسَبَهُ، أعطاهُ اللّهُ تعالى بكُلِّ يَومٍ ولَيلةٍ يَصبِرُ علَيها مِنَ الثَّوابِ ما أعطى أيُّوبَ عليه السلام عَلى بَلائهِ، وكانَ علَيها مِنَ الوِزْرِ في كُلِّ يَومٍ ولَيلةٍ مِثلُ رَمْلٍ عالِجٍ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Whoever patiently tolerates and puts up with his wife s bad character [for the sake of Allah], for every day and night of his endurance Allah will grant him the same reward as that granted to Prophet Job (AS) for enduring his afflictions, and for every day and night of her evildoing she will bear a burden as heavy as the sandhills.

Source: Thawāb al-A’māl wa ‘Iqāb al-A’māl No287

ID: 1312

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

ألا وإنَّ اللّهَ عَزَّوجلَّ ورَسُولَهُ بَرِيئانِ مِمَّن أضَرَّ بِامرَأةٍ حتّى تَختَلِعَ مِنهُ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Beware that Allah the Glorious and Exalted and His Messenger dislike he who harms his wife to the extent that she asks for divorce without compensation!

Source: Thawāb al-A’māl wa ‘Iqāb al-A’māl No287

ID: 1270

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

مَلعونةٌ مَلعونةٌ امرأةٌ تُؤذِي زَوجَها وتُغِمُّهُ، وسَعيدةٌ سَعِيدةٌ امرأةٌ تُكرِمُ زَوجَها ولا تُؤذِيهِ وتُطِيعُهُ في جَميعِ أحوالِهِ.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Cursed! Cursed indeed is the woman who troubles and distresses her husband; and blessed! Blessed indeed is the woman who honors her husband, does not trouble him and obeys him in all matters.

Source: Kanz al-favaed Vol1 P150

ID: 1269

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مَن كانَ لَهُ امرَأةٌ تُؤذِيهِ لَم يَقبَلِ اللّهُ صلاتَها ولا حَسَنَةً مِن عَمَلِها حتّى تُعِينَهُ وتُرضِيَهُ وإن صامَتِ الدَّهرَ ... وعلى الرَّجُلِ مِثلُ ذلكَ الوِزْرِ والعَذابِ إذا كانَ لَها مُؤذِيا ظالِما.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

If a man has a wife who mistreats him, Allah does not accept her daily prayer, nor any other good deed she performs, even if she was to fast all her life, until and unless she relieves him and pleases him...and the husband will bear the same burden and punishment if he mistreats or oppresses his wife.

Source: Wasā’il al-Shī’a Vol20 P163

ID: 1268

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إنَّ الرَّجُلَ لَيُؤجَرُ في رَفعِ اللُّقمَةِ إلى فِي امرَأتِهِ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Verily the man who lifts a morsel of food to his wife s mouth is well rewarded.

Source: al-Maḥajjat al-Bayḍā' fī Tahdhīb al-Aḥyā' Vol3 P70

ID: 1267

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إذا سَقَى الرجلُ امرَأتَهُ اجِرَ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

If a man quenches his wife's thirst he is rewarded for it.

Source: Kanz al-'Ummāl fī Sunan al-Aqwāl wal-Af'āl No44435

ID: 1265

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الإمام الكاظم (عليه السَّلام):

جِهادُ المَرأةِ حُسنُ التَّبَعُّلِ.

Imam al-Kazim (as):

The sacred war (jihad) of a woman is being a good spouse to her husband.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol5 P507

ID: 1264

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

أيُّما امرَأةٍ رَفَعَتْ مِن بَيتِ زَوجِها شيئا مِن مَوضِعٍ إلى مَوضِعٍ تُرِيدُ بهِ صَلاحا إلَا نَظَرَ اللّهُ إلَيها، و مَن نَظَرَ اللّهُ إلَيهِ لَم يُعَذِّبْهُ.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Any woman who so much as moves something from one place to another in her husband's house in order to make improvement is regarded with mercy by Allah, and whoever Allah regards [with mercy] He does not punish.

Source: Sheikh Ṣadūq Vol al-Amālī P

ID: 1263

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

ما مِنِ امرَأةٍ تَسقِي زَوجَها شَربَةَ ماءٍ إلّا كانَ خَيرا لَها مِن سَنةٍ صِيامِ نَهارِها وقِيامِ لَيلِها.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

A woman s quenching of her husband s thirst with a glass of water is better for her than a whole year spent fasting during the day and praying at night.

Source: Irshād al-Qulūb Vol1 P175

ID: 1262

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